Picture this: You’re stuck in traffic, arrive late, and barely have time to warm up before stepping onstage. Your stand partner gives you a cold look because you forgot to bring the sheet music earlier. Then, you glance down and realize you’re wearing the wrong shoes, socks, or stockings. And just when you think it can’t get worse, the conductor launches into a tempo faster than you’ve ever rehearsed, and you feel like you’re losing control!!
How do you feel in those moments?
Physically—does your heart race? Do you feel shaky, tense, or queasy?
Emotionally—do you feel anxious, frustrated, embarrassed, or even angry?
And most importantly, how does this impact your performance?
As a seasoned performer, you already know that the unexpected is inevitable. But do you have a plan to rise to the challenge with ease and grace, so you can still play your best—and maybe even enjoy the thrill of overcoming obstacles?
My students do.
They’ve learned a foolproof plan to navigate even the most challenging moments and perform with presence and poise.
- One student used these tools to play beautifully at her mother’s memorial service.
- Another had a successful audition, despite showing up late, with her kids in tow, after declining beta-blockers from a well-meaning ride-share driver.
Their secret?
A foolproof plan that’s Preventive, Current, and Remedial:
- Preventive:
My Art of Freedom® Method combines the F.M. Alexander Technique—a “method for the control of human reaction”—with daily, mindful Awareness Etudes. These help performers recognize and release habits of tension, fostering physical and emotional ease both on and offstage. - Current:
When something unexpected happens, my students instantly know what to do. They use ConstructiveThinking™ (CT) to calm their nervous system, process emotions, and re-focus on the joy of sharing music. They gain control over their thoughts and manage the “Doubt Monsters” before they take over. - Remedial:
When things don’t go as planned, my students know how to reset. They pause, let go, and trust the present moment. They focus on gratitude, appreciate what went well, and remind themselves that next time will be better. With this mindset, they grow from every experience and move forward with confidence and enthusiasm.
Want to learn how?
I offer transformative online programs that combine self-study, private coaching, and a supportive community with optional live classes.
You’ll learn practical tools to relax, manage your thoughts, and enjoy performing—even when the unexpected happens.
If you’re curious and ready to take charge of your performance experience, message me to chat about your unique situation.
With love and enthusiasm,
Jennifer ❤️
P.S. Want a quick fix? Get started with my Performance Anxiety SOS Kit to help you relax on the day of your next performance or audition, now available for purchase on my website! Let’s do this!

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