When you have contradictory desires (“I want to perform” + “I don’t want to perform”), your brain is sending contradictory messages, and your muscles will gear up in an attempt to take you in (at least) two different directions at once.
In that inner conflict, you get increased muscle tension, or even start shaking—unless, making a firm decision to choose only ONE way of thinking, you then direct your mind and whole self to follow through, banishing any contradictory thoughts.
If you aren’t accustomed to taking charge of your mind to think with more one-pointed clarity on a regular basis, then when you’re backstage, fighting with yourself in a last-ditch attempt to override your panic, you certainly won’t be able to do it!
Besides contributing to performance anxiety, a lack of mental control will slow down your progress in learning anything because your body won’t receive clear messages from the brain.
But . . . HOW do you actually do that?
Concentration is defined as the ability to focus attention on a single object. We all know it’s absolutely necessary for a musician to develop this skill in order to learn, play well, and keep improving. In fact, the degree to which our skill evolves is in direct proportion to our ability to concentrate.
But what most people don’t know is that there are two different ways to concentrate, and our choice is critical to our overall well-being and ultimate success.”
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